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Cherished Ones

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To the precious ones of whom my heart so cherishes. How I yearn to be counted as one you behold as priceless, and purely loved without shadow of turning, unconsumed by expectations laid out by ideas that have accompanied, during the journey thus far. As those whose input influence the outlook of your perception, to your inner thoughts adding perspectives, yielding your ever changing views, or opinions, of how things… Read More »Cherished Ones

One mistake at a time…

Single, Thirty-Nothing, London Based, Dynamic Girl…. Who makes quite possibly the worst decisions in life, falls for the wrong guys and is spectacular at royally fucking up – One mistake at a time! There are two men in my life, they are good guys, neither know what they want relationship wise, and so begins ‘The Game….’ – Yeah, I should walk away, but that would be the easy option – one… Read More »One mistake at a time…

To Be Human

Being human can be scary. It’s not as simple as it is with animals, where everyone has a role in the pride of lions, or in the flock of birds. Being human, there’s a whole lot of grey area between the black and white that’s so easy to get caught up in. As we grow we find our way, in a manner, we try to keep our heads above water… Read More »To Be Human


When someone asks who you are, what is your response? My name is….those are just letters used to make words to make sounds for people to call you by… I’m from…Thats a place where you happened to be when you entered upon this earth… The child of….again, that’s not who YOU are, but you made you… I’ve heard this little ditty for the first time as an anecdote to thrown… Read More »WHO ARE YOU?

Controlled Chaos

This is the world we live in, and it fucking terrifies me sometimes. If its not school shootings, its mass shootings, if its not that its bombings or terrorist attacks or wars driving people out their home countries and throwing them into lives of poverty as refugees. Sure we have a million and one things to distract us now, but there are times where I’ll hear about a current event,… Read More »Controlled Chaos

Three-Day Rule…!!!

Hello all! Still alive? Yes, me too. I’m going to credit this fact to the three-day rule. No, not the dating three-day rule. I’m not qualified to give relationship advice! This rule: if you are going to commit suicide, wait three days…or five days…or a week. Just wait. Suicide might seem like a really good idea – or, at least, a very tempting idea – at a particular moment. But… Read More »Three-Day Rule…!!!

What Depression looks like on a ‘Bad Day’

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  “I have my fair share of bad days but I don’t show people that.’ Depression lingers. It isn’t always there. It haunts you like a shadow creeping behind your every move. It’s there to remind you on the best day of your entire life, depression will deliberately make the following day your worst. Depression is the lies it tries to get you to believe about your life. It infects… Read More »What Depression looks like on a ‘Bad Day’


A friend of mine just asked me: “what is life? Why do we never get the things that we want?” My reply to it was: “Particularly ,cause the things we want are not necessarily the things that we need”. He further continued how he feels better when he’s driving and how speeding over makes him recuperate; his body becomes numb and his thoughts are masked by the rapid acceleration on… Read More »LIFE: A DILEMMA

THIS GENERATION: ‘You’ raised it. ‘Abuse’ altered it.

“Abuse”, the pretty frequently used word of the 21st century. You see extremely long paragraphs written by so many people, from the most famous celebrity to the least known individual on the planet. Child abuse, sexual abuse and harassment have been the hottest topics lately. However, the most underestimated category is mental abuse. In our society, one is accused of abusing in the blink of an eye, no second guessing… Read More »THIS GENERATION: ‘You’ raised it. ‘Abuse’ altered it.

Caution – Asshole Alert

How clever you are, highly observant, noticing the foibles in others.  I agree,  there are assholes everywhere. Unfortunately, while busy observing others,  you are not paying attention to the clues of your own assholeness. Aren’t you lovely going around and pointing out everyone’s shit. Certainly, the world needs some cleaning up. “Pick up your shit,” you yell knowingly. Arrogantly you believe your shit does not smell.  A little aside?  All… Read More »Caution – Asshole Alert