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  • TheInfamousTonyRay posted an update 2 years, 9 months ago

    It’s amazing that I was just telling my wife how much I needed thoughts (the old site) these days. It’s cathartic, healing, and re-energizing. I have sorely missed the house that Ben built.

    Some things have changed with me, since last I walked these once hallowed halls.

    I’m married to an amazing woman, and we have a beautiful baby boy.

    My little boywonder is old enough to drive.

    I’ll be 10 years sober in August.

    I’ve slowed down, a lot.

    I’m still an asshole, for the most part (some things will never change).

    I still pretend to write poetry, when I’m in the mood.

    I’ve gone to college, I have a career, I own a sedan and an SUV and am living the Gen-X version of the perfect suburban life.

    I am so stoked to see thoughts back to being a blog, and hope that many of the originals find us.

    • My brother is maybe 20 years sober and still an asshole too 😉 But we love him. I barely remember your name from around 2009…..causing a ruckus. Ha! But there is always a ruckus starter in every group so Welcome Back to Bens house. Life seemed to have flourished for you…lucky you.

    • Loved getting an update from you. Glad things are going well for you. Welcome back!

    • I’m so happy to have this platform back! Also, I’m so proud of you, friend! But, you should already know that 🙂

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