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  • Pieter wrote a new post 3 years ago

    Today, in a surprising but not unexpected move, I told my partner of four and a half years about my intention to end our relationship.

    This has been my third attempt in about nine months to bring up the […]

    • I need to reread this to give a thoughtful response… until I do….I just want to say WELCOME TO THOUGHTS Pieter 😉

    • Kayla replied 3 years ago

      “If you can’t grow together, you can’t progress.” I think you did the right thing. It sounds like you were progressing in your life and this person was holding you back. Four and a half years Is a very long time, and I wish you didn’t have to go through this heartache. However, taking that step to better your life and knowing that this person was holding you back, is a big accomplishment. Be proud of your self conscience to know that this wasn’t right for you.

      Some people are put into our lives for just a couple of seasons. And then we outgrow them or they outgrow us. And now you’re one step closer to finding your forever person!

      I wish you nothing but the best and I’m proud of you!

  • Pieter became a registered member 3 years ago