I kissed a woman…

last night. She had beautiful red lipstick on, and her lips were so soft. We were at a party with mutual friends, and I was drawn to her laughter. I’ve never kissed a woman before, but this seemed so natural to me. I had enjoyed her company for the evening and had just told her so. She stood up to hug me goodbye, and instead looked me in the eyes, and kissed me gently on the mouth. Oh, my! That was interesting, and not at all repugnant.

Then I woke up.

Left me wondering though why I would dream such a thing. I have been approached by a woman to kiss, and turned my face to allow that kiss to fall on my cheek. I’m not attracted to women, or am I? I like men. Old men, young men, just men. I can find something attractive in most men, and even more so after getting to know them. I used to never notice men when I was out and about, but I do now. All the time!

I was at our local Cracker Barrel last week, with my husband and granddaughter. I noticed an older man staring at me, willing me to make eye contact. Of course, I was intrigued. He was at a table full of his family, but was giving me so much of his attention. At some point, his son (I am assuming) turned around to see what he was staring at. I smiled at both of them. Heck, why not. I then returned my attention to my own little family and tried to avoid making even more eye contact. It just makes me wonder what this man was thinking.

I am okay being sized up by men or women, and I think that is fairly normal. People are interesting, and I size people up myself. I try to always give the benefit of the doubt though when I see someone scowl at me. Usually a woman who is feeling insecure for whatever reason. I learned a long time ago that whatever problem a person has with me, is their own issue. It generally has nothing to do with me, or anything I may, or may not have done. People are strange to be sure. Heck, look at me. Dreaming about kissing women. LOL!

I hope wherever you are today that you are doing well. That you have excellent dreams every night, and that you can remember them with a smile the next day. I enjoy dreaming, and I always have. Be blessed, and by all means possible, be a blessing.

peace ๐Ÿ˜€ shemelts

10 thoughts on “I kissed a woman…”


    I am so with you on being over insecure women. In the industry I worked…..it was full of beautiful people. If you had insecurity issues it wasn’t a place for you. And… I don’t have a jealous bone in my body. My sisters and friends don’t understand how I could be this way. I tell them….I admire people…but jealousy is an ugly feeling! So why would anyone allow anyone to bring such feelings in them?

    I love to people watch. And if a beautiful human happens to walk in front of me I actually will tell them how beautiful they are. And thats for both men and women. I am very secure with myself and all my flaws here and there ๐Ÿ˜‰
    But like you….it’s all men for me. I never doubted that.
    YEARS ago I posed a question online in the field of….if you were to have one night with one member of the same sex who would you pick? The reason I asked that was because it was the same question on a morning radio show I was listening to.
    I answered my own question with I wouldn’t because I loved men too much.
    Well….my beautiful highly educated friend said…..she would look at strength and wisdom and someone worldly and she picked Christiane Armanpour. Mind you….her answer was actually a few paragraphs long …I just gave you the mini version. So of course…..after she put me in my place hahaha…I answered again with….if I HAD to pick then it would have to be a very masculine looking female cause I LOVE MEN too much ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Anywho….I think it’s the artist in me that loves to see beauty in everything. If it’s an object I have to touch it…..feel it. A plant a tree…..just to feel it is amazing. Beautiful people are a treat for the eyes.

    1. I too am very secure. My flaws are my flaws, and I am just not going to waste my life worrying over other people’s issues. I too love beautiful people. It is the photographer in me. ๐Ÿ˜€

  2. Well, I’m not as easy going as y’all. If a man tried to kiss me on the lips I’m all for slugging him. If he and his boyfriend want to make out that’s on them, just leave me out of it.

    Now if a woman wants to gentle my condition with a kiss, I’m your man! ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ˜€

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