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When I was a child, I use to do chores like straightening all the shoes on the mat or picking beans in the garden without my parents telling me to or saying there’d be a reward if I did. Either I was a backwards kid or I took enjoyment in doing chores. (I think it was the latter) I believe that if that study had been done on me when I was young I think a would have taken enjoyment in colouring in both parts of the study irrelevant if I was in the group that received a reward or not. One because as a kid I LOVED colouring and two, I probably would have done it just because they told me to. Although I can say that its true kids have been taught by reward. If you ask them to do something their first reply will be: “What’s in it for me?”
I am curious as to why you placed rejection and silence in a negative aspect. Can these not be used to figure out something about ourselves; that our thoughts and authenticity are different. So someone doesn’t comment on your post; that is just saying you spread your wings where others dare not to even fly. It can also be praise to your ingenuity. The fact that you can harp upon revelations and understandings that just baffle others. And sure I guess there is that little bit of sadness that no one is interested in what you say or think but that should not be fuel added to your fire of anger. Think of yourself as special. And because no one replied it just means that no one has taken away what is special to you or about you. In fact I would go as far as to say that some are left speechless after reading. You have rattled their brains. And they are left without thought.
Silence is your perspective. But you have yet to receive the perspective of those that passed without response. The world has more than one dimension. And although the majority tend to view life like that, look farther. There are many reasons to why silence is the only thing you hear. And to why silence just might be preferable to voice.
In a world of peace, there is silence for gunshots don’t rattle the night sky.
I very much enjoy writings like this. Its very creative and mystifying and keeps me thinking, wondering what it is that that girl knows. And the funny thing is, I’ll probably never know. These are the pieces I enjoy writing myself. There are so many ways to interpret this. And the only true meaning behind it that you created will be understood by you alone. Keep writing things like this… I enjoy it immensely!
I thank you for your complement!
Have you ever read Alvin Plantinga’s ‘Where the conflict really lies’? I think you’d really like it.
with a large pit on the inside?…..
What if it had been you who left this world first? Sitting in the clouds so far away, looking down and watching those left here on earth, what would tell them. They’re crying for you, missing you and trying to find a way to fill the hole in their heart. I think you’d tell them to find happiness. Because isn’t that what we all want; for our loved ones to be happy?
Your husband is sitting in the clouds right now watching you. And he’s whispering to you and telling you to smile.
They say ignorance is bliss. So would this apply to how people innocently push into others boundaries without the slightest clue of how devastating that impact may be?
You asked why man was put on earth, but what about women?
Finally someone who shares my views! Amazing post!
Really? Time not well spent is not time lost, because it’s all part of the human experience; part of life! Who would you be if you cut out all the times you regretted or wasted. Let me tell you this, you wouldn’t be the same as you are now. Every minute of your life is worth living. It’s not lost. Because you lived it, even if not to the best of your ability.
But time is just a word humans have created to describe the daily passing of our life. Therefore can you really lose time? In essence you are saying we are losing life. But life lived is not life lost.
I believe your right. Everyone experiences things differently. So how is someone to understand how you’re feeling. All we can do is say we’re sorry and hope you feel better soon. And then we all say it, because we don’t know what else to say, " I understand." But we don’t. I’ll never know the thoughts in your head or the emotions rippling under your skin. And quite frankly, I belive I don’t want to know. I don’t want the pain you’re in. But take my advice if you wish: Stay strong and keep living, because you never know what’s down the road that you’ll miss if you continue to dwell in your thoughts.